Lesson 2B: Taking a Stand

1 Dear beep, I understand that you’re fed up with it, but bullying back is not the answer. That would just give the mean girl more reason to pick on you. Have you tried answering calmly, saying something like “Want some? It’s delicious” and pretending that you don’t care? Get support from your friends, too. They shouldn’t just be silent bystanders. Bullying usually stops when peers intervene. And if it doesn't, report it to your teacher, and the bully will have to face the music.

2 Hi, beep! Talking about it is definitely a step in the right direction, and you should feel proud of yourself for doing it. Being a passive witness is almost as bad as being the bully. If you feel safe to do so, you can stand up for the boy next time they harass him. And if you’re afraid to do that, talk to an adult who can help. If you help to stop this from happening ever again, you’ll feel much better about yourself!

3 Dear beep, first of all, block and report anyone who is bullying you online. Also, keep records of any online bullying by saving messages or taking screenshots. And, most importantly, don’t let a handful of envious people discourage you from reaching your goal. Have you considered turning what they’ve done to your advantage? Show your fellow students that you will do everything to stop that kind of behaviour if they vote for you. The bullies might end up regretting what they’ve done.

4 Hey, beep! Chin up! What you’ve just described is a very sneaky way of bullying. People who gossip and do things behind your back are, in fact, really insecure and often feel very bad about themselves. They pick on other people to make themselves look better. Have you tried confronting the boy? Be confident. It might make him lose his power. And report the graffiti to the school authorities. They should find the cause of the problem and deal with the offender.